We all have a favorite, for sure, but here are some lovemaking tips to help you and your partner determine the best lovemaking position for you.
Here’s the tricky part – the best position for him isn’t the best position for her. Sorry.
So, in order to enjoy the process of determining the best sexual positions for each of you, keep these tips techniques in mind. First – Take your time to find the best angles for the both of you, while using these positions.
Men – Orgasms Are Best In This Position
Ok, nothing too magical here – the best position for a man to orgasm is simply the doggie style. Why? Just think about it. Nearly every animal species utilizes some form of the rear-entry position to reproduce, so it is perfectly natural for humans to enjoy this lovemaking position, as well.
Pros: This is probably too obvious, but let’s just make note of the obvious benefits. You get to enjoy the view from the rear and you have the ability to fondler her breasts and clitoris, rub her back and stomach, and grab hold of her hips for total control.
Another biggy – The doggie-style position is great for hitter her G-spot.
She can massage her clitoris while in this position, which is an added benefit for some women. It’s one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot.
Cons: The only real negative to this position is it’s difficult to kiss and see in her eyes, unless she’s very flexible.
Also – If you happen to be one of those above-average guys, be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix – And That Hurts!
Ladies – The Best Sexual Position For Women To Reach Orgasm
Generally, the easiest position to reach her climax is the reverse missionary position – as the name implies, she’s on top. She’s in complete control, giving her the ability manage the intensity, speed, friction, etc. She can also hit her G-spot, and who better to know what she likes, than the her. I know this is my wife’s favorite.
Some of the other side benefits are the fondling she can give her man while reaching around, thereby having complete control over his orgasm. Guys of course can fonder her breasts, and backside and of course romantic kissing is easily enjoyed by both parties.
Many couples enjoy this position first during the sexual encounter, since it is usually best when the woman reaches climax first.
OK – So What Can Go Wrong?
Well, to be simple – Boredom. Despite the belief that there are literally hundreds of positions to be enjoyed by couples, when you boil it all down they are all just variations of eight basic positions. So, after you’ve done all of these basic eight positions until you are bored with them, it’s time to change some things – primarily your brain and your attitude.
Here are some Lovemaking Tips to combat bedroom boredom – Add Some Variety To Your Lovemaking. Add some adventure. Explore each other’s sexuality. Be romantic with your mate. Improve your love life by implementing relationship tips, such as turning foreplay into loving and trusting games, using candles to set the mood, etc. – you have an imagination, so use it.
Add a toy or other prop. Ever tried fruit or other foods such as puddings during foreplay? Hey, may not be for you, but how will you know if don’t give it a try?
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