Lovemaking Tips and Secrets-Improve Your Sex Life

If you want a better relationship and lovemaking tips that will set your sex-life on fire, you should know that women can have several different types of orgasms. That’s right. Of course, it’s no surprise that the “holy grail” of all the female orgasms is achieved with the G-spot.

But finding it and knowing how to pleasure her G-spot is the hard part!

Here’s part 1 of everything you need to know…

What is the G-spot?

First of all, the Gräfenberg Spot or G-spot is actually a zone, rather than an actual ’spot.’

Where is the G-spot located?

The G-Spot is said to be located about one to three inches inside the vagina, on the front (anterior) wall of the vagina. This is on the top side or underside of her stomach.

You can also think of it as being located in the area behind the female pubic bone surrounding the urethra.

How will I know when I’ve found it?

The size of this spot appears to vary considerably from person to person.

You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels like a ribbed bump, like the roof of your mouth just behind your front teeth.

It can also be more like a raised bean shaped area.

What makes the G-spot so special?

For many women, higher levels of excitement can be achieved by stimulating the area of the G-spot and can result in intense orgasms. These orgasms often are even more energizing and intense then those climaxes achieved purely through clitoral stimulation.

Woman can achieve orgasm both from stimulation of the clitoris and of the G-spot. Such orgasms are sometimes referred to as “vaginal.

Here’s part 2 of everything you need to know…

Important: Before stimulating the G-spot

In most cases, women prefer to have their clitoris stimulated before you begin stimulating the G-spot.

However, once it’s fully stimulated, the clitoris is often too sensitive for direct contact and it’s time to move on.

How will I know when it’s time?

The G-spot may feel dry and uncomfortable for her. The easiest way to know when it’s time move on is to just ask her. Communicating during any sexual encounter is vital.

At this point, you can move onto the G-spot.

How should I stimulate the G-spot?

While most men would love to satisfy their ladies with sexual intercourse, it’s not always the best idea. Lovemaking by itself will get the guy where he wants to get to, but this is not usually the best way for women to orgasm.

Why? Well, it depends on several factors like: the sexual position; her level of arousal and the shapes and sizes of the penis and vagina, among others.

In short: Using your fingers to stimulate the G-spot is the easiest way to increase the chances of successful orgasm for women.

Here’s part 3 of everything you need to know…

The best positions to stimulate the G-spot

To really stimulate the G-spot, you will need to be in a position that gives you really easy access to work your magic.

Here are a some simple suggestions:

• She lies on her back while you lie next to her. You use your stronger arm.

• She kneels on all fours, in doggie-style position, while you sit and pleasure her from behind.

• If you want even more passion and excitement during this stage of foreplay, try changing from one position to another over the course of your stimulation exercise.

Now let’s talk about how you should pleasure the G-spot. How do I stimulate the G-spot with these techniques?

As mentioned earlier, communication is vital, so ask her what she likes. Generally, however, the motion you want to use is the “come over here” gesture, using your fingers.

Keep in mind that the G-spot is different from the clitoris, which means, in most cases, you’ll stroke it slightly harder than the clitoris.

Start by massaging it lightly and work your way up to a point she finds incredibly satisfying.

Here’s part 4 of everything you need to know…

How to tell if she’s enjoying it

First of all, remember that the best feeling will vary for every woman.

Alternate your stimulation techniques between two very slight movements or spots to find what she likes best.

You’ll know what she likes by her breathing or when she firmly grips you.

Having said all that, there is a way to make this experience even MORE pleasurable.

The missing pieces to a powerful orgasm – Prolonged FOREPLAY and Variety

Studies indicate that one way to increase the passion and intensify your orgasms is to extend the time frame of your “pre-game” – foreplay.

Let’s face it; most of us are guilty of this. You take your clothes off. Away you go, and, within a few seconds or minutes, the routine is over.

But as the bedroom magic fades, it becomes harder and harder to make women achieve orgasms. Why?

Women need variety in their sexual experience. The very best way to please women long-term is to have an entire ‘bag of ideas’ ready to use all the time.

I know, it’s a whole lot easier said, than done, however, especially for guys. However, if you really want to make her night – then be more creative, be more attentive to foreplay and stop trying to “perform”. You’ll be amazed actually.

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